it's hard..yes..very very hard..to give thanks in every situation :)
IN GOOD situation, it is sooo easy to say Thanks Lord for today..Thank God u are so good.
but..can u give thanks when in BAD SITUATION? :)
i can not say i can..i can not say i can't either :)
i learn..i learn to give thanks in a hard situation...
and what i learn from that.. every time when i give thanks while i'm in a upset situation. i somehow always earn rewards from HIM :)
so..i start to learn..to give thanks in good / bad situation :)
u'll never know what you will earn tho if you give thanks while u are not in ur best :)
Try now?
Saturday, April 21, 2012
i missed my blogging time :(
huaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!! miss my blogging time, miss my cooking time, miss my baking time :(
haven't write for like agesss..
hmm..what i did for the past few months.
sold the house, been moving to temporary place to stay for around 2 months.
Went to China in January for around 10 days- well at least free us from staying at temporary place. Thank God :D
such a great experience tho in China good and bad :D
our permanent place has not ready yet, still under renovation until around March. -.-
March we went to Malaysia for business trip.
permanent place has not really ready for stay in tho :( until now.
sofa hasn't come yet, wardrobe has not been made :(
and all my cooking stuffs still "don't - know - where"
but this few days i manage to cook some sausage carbonara - but i forget to take a pics.
Well that's for now.
Will try to post more recipes in near future.
Thank God for today - :)
haven't write for like agesss..
hmm..what i did for the past few months.
sold the house, been moving to temporary place to stay for around 2 months.
Went to China in January for around 10 days- well at least free us from staying at temporary place. Thank God :D
such a great experience tho in China good and bad :D
our permanent place has not ready yet, still under renovation until around March. -.-
March we went to Malaysia for business trip.
permanent place has not really ready for stay in tho :( until now.
sofa hasn't come yet, wardrobe has not been made :(
and all my cooking stuffs still "don't - know - where"
but this few days i manage to cook some sausage carbonara - but i forget to take a pics.
Well that's for now.
Will try to post more recipes in near future.
Thank God for today - :)
Wednesday, February 29, 2012
Mie pok pok
Mie Pok Pok
2bks. Mie ayam pok2
2 btr Telur
1/2 bh. Tomat
1sdm. Minyak Goreng
1/2 ons. Sayur mayur
200gr. Daging ayam dada- potong memanjang
1 tangkai. D. Bawang - iris
2 siung. B.putih - iris
2 siung. B. Merah - iris
Cabe merah sesuai selera
1 sdm Kecap asin,
1.1/2sdm kecap manis
garam, merica sesuai selera.
Pertama tama :
Ayam dimarinate dengan kecap asin dan kecap manis
Panaskan wajan, panaskan minyak nya.
Masukkan b. Merah, putih dan d. Bawang.
Setelah layu masukkan daging ayam, cabai, garam dan merica.
Di masak sampai matang. Disisihkan.
Panaskan air hingga mendidih, masukkan mie sedap rasa kaldu ayam,lalu masukkan telur, dan trakhir tomat dan sayur
Setelah memasukkan tomat dan sayur, matikan apinya.
Tuang ke dalam mangkuk yang telah tersedia bumbu mie sedap :)
Masukkan daging yg telah dimasak tadi, diaduk semuanya sebelum dimakan.
Nyam nyammm.
Taburi bawang goreng utk yg suka :)
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2bks. Mie ayam pok2
2 btr Telur
1/2 bh. Tomat
1sdm. Minyak Goreng
1/2 ons. Sayur mayur
200gr. Daging ayam dada- potong memanjang
1 tangkai. D. Bawang - iris
2 siung. B.putih - iris
2 siung. B. Merah - iris
Cabe merah sesuai selera
1 sdm Kecap asin,
1.1/2sdm kecap manis
garam, merica sesuai selera.
Pertama tama :
Ayam dimarinate dengan kecap asin dan kecap manis
Panaskan wajan, panaskan minyak nya.
Masukkan b. Merah, putih dan d. Bawang.
Setelah layu masukkan daging ayam, cabai, garam dan merica.
Di masak sampai matang. Disisihkan.
Panaskan air hingga mendidih, masukkan mie sedap rasa kaldu ayam,lalu masukkan telur, dan trakhir tomat dan sayur
Setelah memasukkan tomat dan sayur, matikan apinya.
Tuang ke dalam mangkuk yang telah tersedia bumbu mie sedap :)
Masukkan daging yg telah dimasak tadi, diaduk semuanya sebelum dimakan.
Nyam nyammm.
Taburi bawang goreng utk yg suka :)
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Banana Milkshake
Banana milkshake
200ml. Susu full cream cimory
1 1/2 bh. Pisang cavendish
2 sdm. Ice cream vanilla
1/2 sdt Perasa vanilla
Campur semua bahan menjadi satu,
Blender sampai hancur
Dan sarapan pagi siap untuk dihidangkan.
Sangat membantu untuk diet, karena memakai susu full cream, maka akan bertahan sampai lunch time :)
Met mencoba :)
200ml. Susu full cream cimory
1 1/2 bh. Pisang cavendish
2 sdm. Ice cream vanilla
1/2 sdt Perasa vanilla
Campur semua bahan menjadi satu,
Blender sampai hancur
Dan sarapan pagi siap untuk dihidangkan.
Sangat membantu untuk diet, karena memakai susu full cream, maka akan bertahan sampai lunch time :)
Met mencoba :)
Strawberry Smoothies
Strawberry smoothies
350ml. Susu full cream cimory
100ml. Yoghurt drink strawberry cimory
5 buah. Frozen strawberry
1/2 bh. Pisang cavendish
Campur semua bahan di blender sampai hancur.
Lalu voila ready to drink :)
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350ml. Susu full cream cimory
100ml. Yoghurt drink strawberry cimory
5 buah. Frozen strawberry
1/2 bh. Pisang cavendish
Campur semua bahan di blender sampai hancur.
Lalu voila ready to drink :)
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Friday, September 16, 2011
Marriage - Nice article
MARRIAGE
When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.
Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly.
She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?
I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!
With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.
She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.
The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane.
When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.
In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.
This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.
She requested that every day for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.
I told Jane about my wife's divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.
My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outsidethe door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.
On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.
On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.
On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.
She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.
Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.
Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.
But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy.
I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind...I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.
She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart.
Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.
At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.
That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead.
My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push thru with the divorce.-- At least, in the eyes of our son--- I'm a loving husband....
The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!
If you don't share this, nothing will happen to you.
If you do, you just might save a marriage.
Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.
i've read this many times and each times it has always made me in tear :)
such a nice and touching story
When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.
Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly.
She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?
I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!
With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.
She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.
The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane.
When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.
In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.
This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.
She requested that every day for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.
I told Jane about my wife's divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.
My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outsidethe door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.
On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.
On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.
On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.
She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.
Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.
Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.
But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy.
I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind...I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.
She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart.
Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.
At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.
That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead.
My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push thru with the divorce.-- At least, in the eyes of our son--- I'm a loving husband....
The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!
If you don't share this, nothing will happen to you.
If you do, you just might save a marriage.
Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.
i've read this many times and each times it has always made me in tear :)
such a nice and touching story
Saturday, August 20, 2011
Tuhan itu baik sekali
Jadi ceritanya gini.
Kira2 sebulan yang lalu, aq sama suami sedang berbelanja di hypermart. Aq lg mencari sabun mandi dan suami mencari shampoo.
Selama ini aq make sabun mandi suamiku krn baunya yg seger. Aq ga trlalu suka yg milky or fruity or sweet.
Maren sempet beli sabun mandi d*** yg wangi lemon. Tapi dasar nya dari sabun yg milky jadinya walaupun wangi citrus tetep aja ada bau milky. So i force myself to use it. Sampe setengah i leave it. Kembali memakai sabun suamiku.
Until a month ago aq ke hyper pengen beli sabun mandi yg lain.
Aq liat dari L**, B****, sama C****.
Yg trakhir kluaran baru.
Aq cium baunya tp koq baunya nyenget, milky bgt gitu. Smua sabun nya pasti yg cairannya putih kental. Eneq bgt sama baunya. Trus aq liat eh ada Pal******, aq pake ini waktu skul di oz. Trus udh mau ambil. Tapi liat harga lah dobel harganya yg local :(
Oiya bagi aq hrganya cukup lumayan krn keuangan kita lg squeezy pada saat ini, maybe kalo bagi yg lain.
Ya ampun sebotol 250ml cuman 34 rebu. Kalo aq dlu mah cuek aja itu mah masi murah But for me utk saat ini cukup perlu dipertimbangkan hehehe...
Well cutting short. Aq nanya hubby, i love this smells..aq ga suka yg lain. Perlu beli ga yah.
Hubby say ya terserah kamu sih.
Cuman aq mikir2 akhirnya aq ambil yg pling murah which is Car*x.
Tp dlm hati sih pengen banget cuman ya udah deh ga pa pa.
Aq juga ga ngerengek minta Tuhan:)
Udh terbiasa diajar Tuhan utk 'ya udahlah' jadi ga manja lagi.
Anywayyy pake cuman bbrp kali i stopped balik lg ke sabun hubby.
Trus tadi pas belanja, aq ga keingetan sabun mandi, not even in my shopping list. Tp kayak diingetin beli sabun mandi.
Jadi aq blg sama adikku, aq pengennnnnn bgt beli sabun Palm****e, btw, aq blanja sama adikku mlm ini.
We walked towards that section.
Trus pas di section sabun yg aq mau si ms.P. I cant believe what i saw
Its say there...buy 1 get 1.
I was like hah???
Kalo bagi 2 jadi cuman sebotol rp. 17.000.lalu aq bandingin sama yg murah cuman beda bbrp ribu per botol. Compare to the quality it is much more worthed.. Im so happy thank You God :) thank U Jesus..
I grab 4 pcs hihihi..
Tuhan itu baik yah..asal kita mau bersabar menunggu, dan kita tidak memaksakan keinginan kita. Tuhan pasti akan kasih yg terbaik buat kita.
Iya donk..Tuhan jg mau bikin kita happy terus kok :) Dia senang bikin kita happy :)
Ya asalkan kita punya humble heart, and seek Him first.
God bless
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Kira2 sebulan yang lalu, aq sama suami sedang berbelanja di hypermart. Aq lg mencari sabun mandi dan suami mencari shampoo.
Selama ini aq make sabun mandi suamiku krn baunya yg seger. Aq ga trlalu suka yg milky or fruity or sweet.
Maren sempet beli sabun mandi d*** yg wangi lemon. Tapi dasar nya dari sabun yg milky jadinya walaupun wangi citrus tetep aja ada bau milky. So i force myself to use it. Sampe setengah i leave it. Kembali memakai sabun suamiku.
Until a month ago aq ke hyper pengen beli sabun mandi yg lain.
Aq liat dari L**, B****, sama C****.
Yg trakhir kluaran baru.
Aq cium baunya tp koq baunya nyenget, milky bgt gitu. Smua sabun nya pasti yg cairannya putih kental. Eneq bgt sama baunya. Trus aq liat eh ada Pal******, aq pake ini waktu skul di oz. Trus udh mau ambil. Tapi liat harga lah dobel harganya yg local :(
Oiya bagi aq hrganya cukup lumayan krn keuangan kita lg squeezy pada saat ini, maybe kalo bagi yg lain.
Ya ampun sebotol 250ml cuman 34 rebu. Kalo aq dlu mah cuek aja itu mah masi murah But for me utk saat ini cukup perlu dipertimbangkan hehehe...
Well cutting short. Aq nanya hubby, i love this smells..aq ga suka yg lain. Perlu beli ga yah.
Hubby say ya terserah kamu sih.
Cuman aq mikir2 akhirnya aq ambil yg pling murah which is Car*x.
Tp dlm hati sih pengen banget cuman ya udah deh ga pa pa.
Aq juga ga ngerengek minta Tuhan:)
Udh terbiasa diajar Tuhan utk 'ya udahlah' jadi ga manja lagi.
Anywayyy pake cuman bbrp kali i stopped balik lg ke sabun hubby.
Trus tadi pas belanja, aq ga keingetan sabun mandi, not even in my shopping list. Tp kayak diingetin beli sabun mandi.
Jadi aq blg sama adikku, aq pengennnnnn bgt beli sabun Palm****e, btw, aq blanja sama adikku mlm ini.
We walked towards that section.
Trus pas di section sabun yg aq mau si ms.P. I cant believe what i saw
Its say there...buy 1 get 1.
I was like hah???
Kalo bagi 2 jadi cuman sebotol rp. 17.000.lalu aq bandingin sama yg murah cuman beda bbrp ribu per botol. Compare to the quality it is much more worthed.. Im so happy thank You God :) thank U Jesus..
I grab 4 pcs hihihi..
Tuhan itu baik yah..asal kita mau bersabar menunggu, dan kita tidak memaksakan keinginan kita. Tuhan pasti akan kasih yg terbaik buat kita.
Iya donk..Tuhan jg mau bikin kita happy terus kok :) Dia senang bikin kita happy :)
Ya asalkan kita punya humble heart, and seek Him first.
God bless
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